Different ranks of collars and their significance
Within the bdsm community there are several ranks of collars traditionally used to denote different stages of a relationship. The highest ranking collar is the collar of ownership, also called a formal or slave collar. While it isn't necessary to follow any particular model of collaring protocol (or even wear a collar at all) it couldn't hurt to familiarize yourself with the different types of collars and what they signify.

The chosen style of collar is always up to the individual
The images of collars shown here are only suggestions or examples of what might be considered for each group. Which collar you select should be based purely on your own personal preferences.
Collar of Protection: This is a collar given to an unattached sub/slave by a protector or mentor. The collar of protection lets other Dominants know that there is somebody looking out for the submissive. This collar shouldn't have a lock on it since the sub/slave technically doesn't belong to anybody. Some subs wear collars simply to show that they are submissive, so it is acceptable to approach a sub wearing a collar to ask their status.
Collar of Consideration: This collar is given at the beginning of a relationship and worn throughout the courtship period. The sub/slave shouldn't be dealing with any other Dom/mes at this point unless directed to by their Master. Traditionally this is a leather collar in some shade of blue although the color doesn't seem to be a big factor to most people.
Training Collar: The training collar is to be given after the collar of consideration as a sign that the relationship has progressed to the next level. This is usually a sturdy, leather "working" collar or posture collar which has extra rings for restraints, but again, it's up to the Dominant to decide which style they prefer. Typically training collars are used in casual play with unattached subs/slaves.

Formal Collar: The formal collar is a symbol of ownership and commitment to a long term relationship. Most often it is given during a collaring ceremony. The style of this collar depends solely on the Dominant's preference. Some opt for very decorative jewelry-like designs, screw down collars which are never removed, or simply a chain with a lock on it. There are no hard and fast rules about what this collar should look like, although tradition holds that this collar should be unique and created specifically for the occasion.


Collar Etiquette 101
Never touch a submissive's collar unless you put it there yourself!
Even though some uncollared subs wear collars in public, always ask if they are     involved before trying to kick it to them.
It's rare, but some Dominants do wear collars also. Always approach people with     respect if you are unsure of their status.
If you want to speak to a collared submissive that you don't know, you should ask     their Master/Mistress for permission first.

Do not address a Dominant as "Master" or "Mistress" unless you are wearing their     collar or they instruct you otherwise. Sir and Ma'am are fine in the meantime.

Don't ever flirt with, fondle, or proposition a collared submissive!

 
Once you've found the perfect collar, the next step is finding the perfect way to present it. Next we'll take a look at how several Dark Connections members performed their own beautiful ceremonies.

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