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Dark Connections Featured Membear June 2007
Name: Teddy
Age: 25
Orientation: Furry bottom
Occupation: Self-employed
Marital status: Single
Do you currently have a Domme or play partner: A few playpartners.
As a bear of color have you had any difficulties finding a Domme?
Being pink, obviously I stand out at events so there's usually a curiosity factor which has made it pretty easy for me to find playpartners. But... I can't help but feel like an outsider at times. I mean, there aren't any pink bear BDSM support groups that I know of...You've been to more fetish events than the average bear. Is traveling one of your favorite activities?
Oh definitely! I've been to dungeons all over the east coast, as well as fetish events at Hedonism in Jamaica and Belize. I was at the very first Black BEAT convention and almost every one since then (will be there in August!). It's a great way to keep yourself centered and happy, plus I can fit inside carry-on luggage so it's quite cheap for me to travel.
Is it awkward being a heterosexual bear in the leather lifestyle?
It can be a bit confusing at times... I'm often approached by gay men who have a thing for leather bears but I just politely explain my orientation and it's no big deal. Most of the time we have a good laugh over it, and then I'll give them oral or something. I'm secure enough in my bearhood to do that.
What was your first session with a Pro-Domme like?
It was great! I have a major foot fetish so it was awesome being stomped on and having her toes all in my grill. I loved it. I was a little nervous at first, especially since there was a photo shoot during our session, but as soon as I went into bear-space it didn't even matter. She was that good.. (CaramelDomme.com)Some folks would consider what you do to be bestiality. What would you say to them?
Well, look... People are going to say what they want to say about me, so I try not to worry about it. Ok, technically I guess you could refer to my sexual interactions with humans as bestiality, but I like to just call it "delicious!"Tell us what kind of play you enjoy.
I already mentioned my foot fetish... I'm also quite the masochist, so anything that involves a high level of pain is going to be enjoyable to me. I also enjoy shibeari, CBT, strap-on and nipple torture. But one of the things I most look forward to is after-care because lets face it, with a body like mine I was born to be cuddled. My last Domme used to call me an "aftercare bear". I thought that was pretty funny, but also pretty accurate.
What's your most memorable bdsm moment?
This is easy. It was having the First Lady of Dominance, the inimitable Mistress Mir, smash and grind my face against her royal punanny. It is a moment I will easily treasure for an entire lifetime.Do you feel the internet has changed the BDSM lifestyle?
In a way, yes. Like most things in life, the internet has it's benefits and it's drawbacks and online anonymity can be a slippery slope... but I will admit that I personally don't spend too much time online due to my lack of fingers. I can point and click, but typing with paws is pretty much impossible.
You are stranded on a deserted island with a beautiful ebony goddess. What steps would you take to ensure your rescue?
Rescue? lol! Are you kidding? why would I want to get rescued? ;)
