There
is not much information available regarding the earliest
Black BDSM organizations due to secrecy and lack of documentation.
Obeah, a bdsm related black supremacy group that does not
allow black submissives or white dominants, was formed as
early as the late 60's and is still active today. There
was also believed to be a coffee klatch for black female
dominants in Chicago during the 60's.
The internet has had more of an impact on Black
BDSM history than any other medium. The places to find information
and meet other people of color in the lifestyle are seemingly
endless, and the added lure is that it can all be done in
complete anonymity. Chat groups such as EbonyDomsubChat, The Black
Doms Room, and Black Doms Forums took off in the 1990s and
people of color began meeting and having play parties sporadically.
In 1999 one of the first major black bdsm events, "Ebony
Lifestyles", was attended by over 350 people in Charlotte,
NC and by early 2000 several real time groups had been organized
and the first munch groups were created specifically for
people of color.
The
Storm~DeSade Academy, the first training
school for submissives of color, founded by MrDesade69
(Master Dark Eros) and Lady QuyitStorm,
ran from October 1998 to September 1999. Throughout that
time there were six graduates. Two participants were unable
to complete the program successfully.
The Academy was developed to assist new submissives in
understanding their chosen roles and educating themselves
to the lifestyle in general. The participants were selected
by referral from Dominants, petitions and an application
process.
The
program included eight weeks of study, three modules with
tests at the end of each and a final exam. It was designed
and highly structured to provide the novice with an understanding
of basic definitions and etiquette all the way to negotiation
and interviewing skills. The program was only offered to
women and men of color and all who applied were not accepted.
There was also a waiting list due to the policy of admitting
only one or two submissives at a time. While the program
was officially ended September 20 1999, it's services are
frequently requested even today. Due to the intensity of
the emotional as well as time commitments required, it's
founders are regrettably unable to consider future candidates.
This
mentoring program took place mainly online with the exception
of two students who traveled to California for their first
real time experience. One of those two students, Rayn, wrote
a fantastic online report, with photos, documenting her
experience.
"Upon
successful completion, the graduates were formally presented
to the community.... This came to be seen as their "debut"
and themselves as debutantes and resulted in them becoming
highly sought after. The final result produced an informed,
poised and self assured novice." Lady QuyitStorm
Black
Doms Newsletter is believed to be the first
online newsletter created for people of color. The first
edition was published by Lady QuyitStorm in October of 1998
In October 1999 the publication was picked up by MsBlckJagg
and the name was officially changed to Black Doms and Submissives
Monthly. The newsletters were published at MsBlckJagg's
web site and a mailing list bearing the same name was also
created for archiving
purposes.
Black_Doms_And_Subs
online discussion group was formed in October 1999 by MsBlckJagg
as a supplement to the newsletter and is still a very active
online group.
Two
of the earlier issues of Black Doms Newsletter have been
saved and permanently archived at Dark Connections.
"Our
goal is to help bring the People Of Color BDSM community
closer together, through education and communication,
to assist people new to D/s & BDSM relationships
who genuinely wish to learn from experienced practitioners
already in the scene."
Black Doms And Subs
Nubian
Nation News online newsletter and Nubian
Kings chat room ran from January 2000 to July 2000. The
newsletter was originally created by DeSade, Cntrler, Pantheros
and Lady QuyitStorm.
The newsletters were extremely colorful and informative,
loaded with afrocentric articles, graphics, and poetry all
created by Doms and subs of color.
It's mission was to provide a source of influence, knowledge,
protection and strength to those that aspired to be or chose
to further their growth as
Black
Dominants or submissives, thereby strengthening the quality
of the Nubian BDSM community and nurturing D/s relationships.
Unfortunately
some of the newsletters were lost over the years, however
five remaining issues have been donated to Dark Connections
for archiving.
"We
as a unit seek to give our community a focal point for
Culture and Identity, direction and guidance, protection
and problem solving as we oversee the growth of our community."
-Nubian Nation News
Mahogany
Pleasures of Darkness,
a San Francisco Bay area munch group for people of color,
first met in February of 2000. Mr. Worf came up with the
initial idea for the group, and recruited members from the
now defunct national egroup he created called BDSM4POC.
Mahogany was most likely the first black munch group ever
created.
The mission of the group is to provide an entry point and
forum for African Americans, and other people of color,
who are Dominants, Submissives and Switches to meet and
exchange ideas.
Mahogany
Pleasures of Darkness holds monthly munches and play parties.
The online
discussion group, bearing the same name, was formed
in April 2000 and is still active.
"I
started Mahogany but I can't take all the credit. Cntrler,
MsBlckJagg, nikko, chupoo, Nomdenuit, Shane and others
helped get the word out and attended the munches regularly.
We went home after the first couple of munches then wrote
our own versions of what the name and mission statement
should be. Then we took pieces of each one and combined
them into one statement. Also, the name of the group was
made up of several names we all came up with and pieced
together. So it was truly a group effort." -Mr.
Worf
Black
Sensuality D/s and BDSM was a voice chat
group formed in October 2000. The live format permitted
members to communicate directly with each other and therefore
become more intimate as friends. The purpose of the group
was to allow members to explore themselves, educate themselves,
grow in the lifestyle and have fun. The chats were held
on PalTalk.
LadyQ
came up with the concept for Black Sensuality. DarkXDom,
DarkEros, hungry_1, and Black Elegance all contributed to
it's development.
The
group's web
site is currently being redesigned. A Black Sensuality
meet and greet named "Eyes Wide Shut" was organized
and took place at Black Rose in November of 2001.
"Oftentimes
we find that people of color are underground or hidden
with parts of their sexuality. For those of you curious
about the lifestyle, interested in venturing into the
lifestyle you have found a home." - Black Sensuality.
PhillyBlackSubsNDoms
online discussion group was formed in January 2001 by juicysub19.
The organization held their first munch at the Broad Street
Diner in Philadelphia in October of 2001. The munch was
organized by Marti, Herm, Kikit and biackeagle.
PhillyBlackSubsNDoms
was designed to bring together people of color and their
admirers from the Greater Philadelphia area who are a part
of the D/s community.
The discussion
group is still very active and they are still having
regular munches.
"Through
PhillyBlackSubsNDoms, we hope to provide a tool for helping
you meet new people, learn more about dominance and submission,
stay informed about local events, and provide a welcoming
environment where you can feel free to express yourself.
" Philly Black Subs N Doms
OurBDSM.com
and the OurBDSM egroup was formed in March 2001 by Subtlediva.
The online discussion
group was highly popular for many years and hosted many
"cybermunches" with prominent guest speakers such
as John Warren, author of "The Loving Dominant".
The Black
MunchGroup
was an offshoot of OurBDSM and had a corresponding online
discussion group. Subtlediva and Hungry1 worked with the
group based out of North Carolina. The first munch took
place in Raleigh, NC in May of 2001 and the munches continued
for about a year or so.
"We
are dedicated to the community growth of African-Americans
in the BDSM, D/s and related Lifestyles."- OurBDSM
Blacksubs4BlackDoms
was one of the first AOL groups designed to unite
both Dominants and submissives of color together to
discuss the common interests they have in the D/s-BDSM
lifestyle. The group was founded by blkrarediamond,
canubreakme, and apleasure2touch and ran from April
2001 to May 2002.
In August of 2002 the group's founder, blkrarediamond,
went on to open Black
submissive Lounge (BsL), an online discussion
group where Black submissives can speak freely without
being under the watchful eye of Dominants. Men and
female Dominants are not allowed. BsL is still an
active group.
"The
sole purpose of BsL is to create a non-judgmental,
non-combative environment as we converse on many
issues that pertain to the D/s lifestyle. This group
is targeted solely for the African American female
submissive who wishes to reach out to others, and
from there, we will learn, share, and grow together."
CLOAK
(Charlotte lovers of all kink) organization was founded
in November of 2001 by "A" and Lady Gee.
Their first official real time gathering was held
December 2001 in Charlotte, NC.
CLOAK
is a pansexual BDSM organization oriented toward the
black community and its admirers. Its goal is to provide
a warm and friendly atmosphere for discussion and
education regarding BDSM activities.
"The
main objective of our Group was to attract blacks
and give them the opportunity to see some of the
choices of groups available. Little did we know
how much opposition we would generate. We were accused
of being prejudiced. That we were trying to separate
blacks and whites. That was funny to us, because
of us being in the south and the history of segregation
here. After opening our eyes, we discovered that
because of the lack of blacks visible in the lifestyle,
many of the blacks that were practicing had white
partners. So, having a exclusive group was out of
the question. Thus, we are known as CLOAK-“Charlotte
Lovers of All Kink”-Covering the Black community
and its Admirers (of all races). " - A
Black
Ties hosts bi-annual, invitation only
play parties by and for people of color engaged in
BDSM. Their first gathering took place in February
of 2002.
This exclusive group
was founded by Nomdenuit, chupoo and isis whose goal
was to create a safe place for the Black community
in the San Francisco Bay Area to discuss and practice
BDSM. Black Ties does not run a munch group or an
online discussion group. They can be reached via email
only.
"I
believe people of color need a place that they can
feel safe in, without regard to race or ethnicity."
- NomDenuit
B.O.N.D.
(Brotherhood of Nubian Dominants) was formed in April
of 2002 and is still an active organization. The group
was organized to benefit Black male dominants seeking
to enhance, supplement and empower through a united
effort.
B.O.N.D. has an online discussion
group and a mentoring program. The Each One
Teach One dominant mentoring program is intended
to help answer the need for quality black dominants
in the BDSM community, and promote brotherhood between
the novice and the veteran.
The program blends mentoring with education, community
and self-awareness in order to stimulate individuals
who may need assistance in becoming a quality dominant.
Mentoring is utilized as the basic intervention strategy
for meeting the needs of the black BDSM community.
"As
Black men, we take full responsibility for the welfare
of our families and communities, this includes,
but is not limited to, being responsible for the
care and education of our immediate families; the
propagation of the essential values of D/s; the
economic and political uplifting of the communities
we live in; and setting a positive example of how
a Black man represents himself." - B.O.N.D.
Black
BEAT held it's first Black BDSM conference in Maryland
August 22 - 24, 2003. The event included workshops
and demos, two meals, a Meet-n-Greet social, two nights
of private dungeon attendance/play, shopping, T-shirt,
souvenir program booklet and access to the pre-event
Member's Only area.
"Who
would have ever thought that we would have bonded
together (a group of strangers meeting for the first
time) so naturally and beautifully. i don't think
any of the core or committee thought BB would turn
out like this...All i am left to say is there was
so much LOVE and respect for one another that no
one can fully articulate it." BlkRareDiamond
Bay
Area Women of Color BDSM Photo Project was
started in September of 2003 by Ms. Heart and fetish
photographer Andrew Morgan. The mission of Bay Area
Women of Color BDSM Photo Project is to expand the
aesthetic and cultural perception of the BDSM community
by promoting artistically tasteful photographic
images of Women of Color in BDSM.
The
website
offers free photos available to upload on other
sites that honor Women of Color and lifestyle diversity
in the Bay Area and abroad.
"Woman
of Color in the BDSM community are not coming forward
for a variety of reasons, but chief amongst these
is the fact that the images most commonly presented
are of people unlike themselves. If Women of Color
could see other Women of Color participating and
playing, they would feel included and acknowledged.
This is an essential element in outreach for the
BDSM community. Images have the power to shape our
consciousness. These images will represent diversity
within our community and demonstrate our lifestyle
in a positive and exciting manner." Ms.
Heart
Dark
Connections History of Black BDSM is an ongoing project
which will be updated continually. All of the information
provided in this section was gathered from our members
and from other online sources. Should you find any errors
or missing information, notify us immediately so we
can make the necessary corrections. If you have any
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