BDSM IN A NUBIAN WORLD


PURPOSE

To provide a Male Dominated source of influence, knowledge, protection and strength to those that aspire to be or choose to further their growth as a Black Dominant or submissive. Thereby strengthening the quality of our Nubian BDSM community and nurturing our D/s relationships.

Goals

To serve as a resource for clarification, support, mediating, and mentoring. Thereby overseeing the evolution, and growth of trained Dominates and cultured submissives. We, as a unit seek to give our community a focal point for Culture, identity and education. Thereby contributing to the direction, guidance, protection and problem solving necessary for the growth and stability of our community.

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Each week we provide a set topic for discussion based on the suggestions and ideas of this community. Your comments, questions and suggestions are greatly appreciated. Your name and ideas will be posted in the Discussion announcements.

These chats provide a great opportunity for each of us to develop, enhance and practice our D/s social graces in an educational environment.

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MrDeSade69
Director
Cntrler
Publisher
Lord Pantheros1 & Lady QuyitStorm1
Co-editors

To the Nubian Nation Community,

Due to the lack of response to assist in the education/enlightenment of submissives and new Dominants, the planned re-opening of the Storm/Desade Academy has been put on hold.

Previously the Academy was operated by two remarkable individuals, but even then it was an overwhelming task. We of the Nubian Kings Council have deemed it too monumental a task to undertake without adequate staffing, hence, until sufficient numbers of volunteers come forth, the Academy will remain closed. We sincerely apologize to all who may be adversly affected by our decision.

Watching over our own...May your intent be pure

lord Pantheros1

Question & suggestion contributed by BlackDiamond4351

We recieved your question and discussed it at the Nubian Kings Social, last Sunday. It was agreed that we would look into the subject with the Doms taking the lead.

So how bout it peeps?
We are looking at sometime in October.
Drop us a line and tell us what you think.

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Wonder Lust

I see an angel before my eyes
And all I gaze upon are thighs
Could it be atop the Y
A round surprise for Daddy's eyes

Peanut brittle colored nipples
Hips with dip over that hot tip
Needing, wanting Daddy's lips
Juicy, noisy, slippery yet nimble

Swinging sounds in the air
Hopes, rewards to a painful pair
Daddy's hopes, plans and needs
Will often be landing there

Silver Tongued Devil Copyright© 2000 All rights reserved

D/s:
LIFESTYLE OR SEXUAL PREFERENCE?

Some time ago I was asked if I shared the concept of D/s with my family and friends. My answer was and is an emphatic 'YES'. As I have stated before, I feel the D/s philosophy is the answer to the social and familial ills our communities have suffered from since coming into contact with the european colonists. Where is the shame? Why would I not share a cure for an up to now untreatable disease with my own people?
Before you stop reading, before you decide that I must be independently wealthy, or own my own successful businesses, I am speaking only of community and family members. I am not advocating attempting to convert your supervisor at work. I am speaking of putting things in order. I am saying the same things presently taught in your most progressive churches, urged by relationship experts worldwide.
Most of us, when we think of how people view our lifestyle, think of the activity that takes place, or should be taking place in the privacy of our own bedrooms. Do my friends and family know what goes on in my bedroom? No! Did they know when I lived a "vanilla" lifestyle? No!
D/s is the only foreseeable salvation for our family structure in this society. Black men standing proud and straight, assuming their God-given positions as head of house and absolute authority over spouse and progeny. This the only way we are going to reclaim our heritage as Kings and Queens and take back the neighborhoods that we live in. It is for this reason I extol the principles of D/s to all who will listen, (I may use a different terminology, depending upon who's listening...lol) I do and will continue to share the wealth.
So whether you choose to express yourself with the gentle stroke of a the fingertips, or a resounding slap of a palm... the titillating caress of an ostrich feather or the crack of a cane, it's still making love. Moreover, it is nobody's business but your own.

Watching over our own...May your intent be pure

lord Pantheros1

Copyright© 2000 All rights reserved

"THE PERSONA OR THE MAN"

Hello My Brother and sisters of Dominance and submission. I would like to talk about an issue that I have encountered through out our community. It appears that those new to the lifestyle tend to fall for the PERSONA of the Dom/sub and not the Man/woman in question.

When I say Persona, I speak of the presence that we all have on AOL. When we are on AOL we have an on screen presence that comes across the computer screen. That presence can be no-nonsense, very sexy, stand offish, loving, kind, innocent or whatever you would like to present to the AOL world. Now the challenge lies within people that fall for the AOL persona and not the man or woman behind the screenname.

I have experienced this several times in the form of attentions from submissives who fall for the Mr.DeSade persona. Nothing wrong with that. However, understand that when you select a Dom/sub online, sooner or later you must deal with the whole person and the veil of fantasy may fall. We must realize that there was a real person behind every screenname. This step into reality can cause one to feel as if the Online persona was is the only thing one really wanted. and that the man was not something she could not or did not want to handle. As I look back on this event in my life I realize that we all have to come to the realization that there is a real man or woman setting down at their computer typing all those wonderful words that we love to read. Also that person has desires, dreams, pains and emotions that are very different from their onscreen persona.

So the next time you fall for someone online make sure you realize that you also fall in love with the man or woman behind the onscreen persona if you want to have a real good D/s relationship.

TECHNOLOGY
SHARING THE INFORMATION

Today information is increasing and technology continues to leap forward. I have decided to help those that do not have the online experience using the technological products available to the general public. In most cases those products and services I mention are free. I believe that most of us who frequent the Nubian Kings chat room use AOL exclusively. AOL with its easy to use interface makes it so appealing to novice PC users and net surfers. However, AOL is not the only means of accessing the Internet or the World Wide Web. There are hundreds of online services AOL is only one. What is important is the access to the Internet. All else is just mute unless you can get on the Internet. Companies like EarthLink, Mindspring, Slipnet to name three are just competitors to AOL.

AOL has a superb chat room and Instant Message format. It is the top of the line in those categories. However, Yahoo! has a message format that is exquisite and free. Because most of us are AOL subscribers I will address the advantage to AOL members. Those who receive this newsletter and are not AOL subscribers the information is still relevant.

I will approach this from three separate areas. Accessing the Internet, Improving Website visits and saving money. There is no single way to do anything I mention in this article. I will explain how I have been using this information.

I have been using the Internet since before the World Wide Web i.e., before Web Sites. I have watched the Web and the Internet grow. There are excellent services to take advantage of for the novice and experienced Internet Service Providers (ISP) gives you access to the Internet. If you access the Internet before logging onto AOL you do so by using what is called a TCP/IP connection. In lay terms means you enter AOL through the back door so to speak, instead of through a phone line connection. That will allow you to log on quicker because you don't have to wait for a phone dial up nor ring. If you go to AOL billing and choose Bring Your Own Access (B.Y.O.A.) as your billing choice then on your next billing cycle and for as long as you maintain it AOL will charge you $9.95/MO. Therefore, we need to connect to the Internet by some other means than AOL.

My favorites: We all get bumped from AOL, sometimes daily in my case, but with these services you won't or will seldom get bumped from the Internet. They all provide email.

http://www.address.com/ Once connected to address.com you will be left alone and experience hours of free Internet access the boot of time is short …and you will have an ad banner that can be moved by holding down the left mouse button on the left border…more on the ad banner later… you must use Internet Explorer 5.0 to access address.com

http://www.worldspy.com/ This is another free Internet service. This site does not ask a lot of questions and there are no ad banners and it allows you navigate the Internet anonymously!

http://www.bluelight.com/ This is another address that provides Free Internet access at K-Mart's website. It has an innovative boot up screen an ad banner and uses Yahoo! for its home page, you must register with Yahoo! to use Yahoo! services. Yahoo! is FREE!

RECOMMENDATIONS
http://www.naviscope.com/ - eliminates ads from websites and even lets you know how many ads it blocks several other features included. Nice tool and FREE

Yahoo messenger -excellent communication tool that can be used worldwide and its FREE you must download messenger from Yahoo! Messenger allows you to talk long distance over the net Free…even have conference calls

Netscape instant messenger - AOL's instant messenger tool employed by Netscape that allows to configure (real easy) those individuals and friends that you want to know you are on line, those you want to know you are online and several other features, one, how long someone on your list has been online (the Internet). This service acts with any email address you enter and it works worldwide. FREE!!! You don't have to be on AOL to use it, just the Internet

Hint: use your AOL screen name and/or create another.

Computer currents -- stay abreast of the technology and understand how it applies to you with computer Currents. They even have archives of past issues and topics.

Hope you have fun and find this information useful? These are not all you will find, but these are the ones I experience daily.

Cntrler Copyright© 2000 All rights reserved

Quyit Times

Moments of joy that make life grand
Elements of life like grains of sand
Pour from her like tides and currents
Consistent, constant, enveloping
Eroding
Resistance to her feminine wares
Yearnings for her nature of submissive joy
Calls me, tells me, the gift is rare
Only one will know
How the beauty of her gift is shared
Of elements and moments
Showing hints of joy and acts that bond
Confident, Intimate, Peaceful and Strong
Parts of her that make her charm
Addictive, Attractive pleasant and calm
Mmmm indeed
I need
Quyit Time(s)

SILVER TONGUED DEVIL Copyright© 1999 All rights reserved

Avoiding "Online" Pitfalls
by jade
1970 to 1999
R.I.P

Because so many new submissives are discovering themselves online, mainly on IRC, I've directed most of this toward them. I've seen too many tender souls lead astray by the behaviors and information they've gleaned from watching the activities of the popular BDSM or D/s channels. Although there are some channels populated by "real-lifers," the majority are inhabited by "online wannabes" who don't have a clue about the realities of real-life D/s relationships. They do our lifestyle a real disservice by playing a dangerous game with other people's lives and feelings. I often wonder how many submissives lost the chance to discover the fulfillment of their true nature because of the myths and fallacies they've found on IRC or other "chat" providers. Here are some of the typical things you should know about and avoid.

"On your knees, slave" The first time someone said that to me on a D/s channel I was stunned. I was unowned at the time, new to "chat" and couldn't believe that this was happening. I soon learned that this was a common occurrence online and I would have to deal with it several times a day. You do NOT have to get on your knees for anyone, nor should you do so when this happens. No true Dominant would ever say or expect such a thing from a submissive who does not have a relationship with Him/Her. Put the clod on "ignore" and move along.

"I am your Master/Mistress and you will do as I say" Wrong! Until you have entered into an agreement with a Dominant, no one is your Master/Mistress. It doesn't happen because they say so, it happens when you reach an understanding with them. It's a mutual decision, not one made by a stranger. You will know it when someone is your Master/Mistress and they won't have to announce it to you in a private message.

"Because you are a submissive you will serve me" Not even on a good day! You serve because you desire to, not because you are ordered by someone you've never met. Your service is a gift that's offered, not taken, and you have every right to refuse, or better yet, ignore the comment entirely.

"I order you to submit to me" This one left me in fits of laughter for nearly 10 minutes. Submission is NOT ordered. Submission is given, and then only after trust has been established. Your gift of submission is a precious thing and one you should not toss around on a channel freely. If you would not give the keys to your car to a stranger on the street, why would you even consider giving a stranger the keys to your very life? Take your time and don't be afraid to say "NO."

Another thing to watch out for is the ridiculous behavior of some of the "online" submissives. You will see things like subs hugging, kissing and lap-sitting with every Dominant on the channel. Be aware that this is NOT acceptable or desired by any Dom worth His salt. They may be amused by these actions but it's doubtful they would choose one of the subs that participate in this sort of thing. I'm always embarrassed by submissives who go out of their way to provoke or anger Dominants. This seems to be a childish attempt to gain attention and seldom gets more than an occasional "swat" from a Dominant who has had enough of it. Other similar activities are subbie revolts, collaring Dom/mes, tossing water balloons, and sexually inappropriate behavior. If you want to be respected and honored, you will avoid these pathetic attempts to be noticed. Your poise and respectable behavior will draw the attention of those that are worthy of it.

I could continue listing these kinds of comments and behaviors for the next week and still not cover all the ignorant things you'll hear in one day on "chat." There are lots of "players" online, those who use IRC as an erotic fantasy, and if that's what you are after, you'll find it. But if you are truly wanting to learn what those strange feelings stirring inside you are really about, you'll have to be smarter than the average "wannabe Dom/me." Trust your natural instincts. If it doesn't "feel" right, it probably isn't. Know that you have rights in decisions made concerning you. You can be submissive and say no. Find reliable sources of information and READ. Learn what the lifestyle and your nature are about. You can find some good sources for information in the links sections on Lord Colm's View From the Top page, my Chains of Love page or the numerous articles found in the Castle Library.

Copyright© 1997 Castle Realm
All rights reserved

*x*Lady QuyitStorm*x*
"The abandonment of control~given by a woman of strength,
is one of man's most intense pleasures."